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PODCAST | How to make friends, platonic love, and the science of attachment with Marisa Franco

Stephanie Gage

According to a survey of 2000 adults, the average American hasn’t made a new friend in the last five years, and yet, 45% of people would go out of their way to make a new friend if they knew how. STPF alum fellow and friendship expert Marisa Franco joins current fellow Stephanie Gage for a candid conversation about her New York Times best-selling book “Platonic: How the Science of Attachment Can Help You Make and Keep Friends.”

In more recent history, says Franco, society has established a “hierarchy of love” with romantic love at the top -- downgrading the value of friendship. “I wanted to write Platonic to elevate the status of friendship and to help people come to see it as sacred, as I have.” Listen and learn about loneliness, the importance of friendship, and how to make lasting friendships.

Guest

Marisa Franco, Ph.D., Counseling Psychology; 2019-21 Executive Branch Fellow at the Millennium Challenge Corporation; https://drmarisagfranco.com/

Host

Stephanie L. Gage, Ph.D., Neuroscience; 2021-23 Executive Branch Fellow at the National Science Foundation; Twitter: @sl_gage

Executive Producer

Reshmina William, Ph.D., Civil Engineering; 2022-23 Executive Branch Fellow at the Department of Energy, 2021-22 Judicial Branch Fellow; Twitter: @ReshminaWilliam

Image: Marisa Franco, https://drmarisagfranco.com/

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Stephanie Gage

Gage, Stephanie: Fellowship 2021-2022 Gage, Stephanie: Fellowship 2022-2023

I'm fascinated by nervous systems and behavior -- in particular how nervous systems are flexible and adaptable to enable complex behaviors. I have a PhD in neuroscience from the University of Arizona, and a BS in chemistry from Beloit College. I've used this training to study honey bees and colony loss with the USDA-ARS (2015 - 2019); and how insects use sensory-motor integration in flight control at Georgia Tech (2020 - 2021). 

Alongside this work, I also advocate for early-career researchers. I served on the Research Faculty Council at Georgia Tech that advised leadership on ways to support the post-doctoral community; and also briefed the NSF Director on ways to support post-doctoral mentoring as a fellow.

I'm currently an Associate Program Director within the Foundations of Emerging Technologies Cluster in CISE/CCF at NSF where I focus on topics related to bio-and neuro-inspired computing. 

When I'm not working, I'm likely to be found on my paddle board, in my garden, exploring new destinations, spending time with my two dogs, or reading and writing at a nearby café